Narendra
Gupta (NG): I would like to say a big and a heartfelt thank you for what you
are doing to this community and for your act of selfless living and giving. Sir, please tell me something about your life?
Anthony Olszewski (AO): I was born in Margaret Hague Maternity hospital, Jersey City in
the year 1956. I have lived almost my entire life in Jersey City, in fact a
few blocks away from the shop. Jersey City in the world has changed a lot
since then, in many ways for the better and in some ways for not. People are a
lot more educated but they do not seem to think as deeply and empathetically as
people used to, even those with very little education.
NG:
What is your vision for
life? How would you describe your mission for life?
AO: For my life, I like to think at the end of every day that
something is being accomplished. Every day is being productive and worthwhile.
That's as far as I see.
I
had set plenty of goals for myself and I accomplished most of them. I
graduated, bought a house on the block, I put myself in school raising cage
birds believe it or not, and years ago I published many articles on that
subject (canaries in particular) including a chapter on genetics in veterinary textbooks,
I have been involved with many projects – like I was a website editor, even
worked on political campaigns – some of them were successful and some not.
NG:
What are your top values
for life?
AO:
I try to have a set of rules that I go by. Just
a small thing, a few years ago, I was opening up the shop here and there was a
wallet out front. Somebody had dropped his wallet. It had $300 some dollars. I had to go through
the wallet to find the identity. There was a set of phone numbers and I called
them all, Somehow I found that the guy was getting a haircut in a saloon
nearby. The guy was offering me $20 but I refused that. I was mentioning this
to people and most people said why didn't I keep the wallet, and a few people
said why didn't I take those $20 dollars. I knew that wasn't my money and this
is what I should do. I don't see why I should be paid for something that I was
supposed to do, or even get a tip for something that I was supposed to do as a
human being.
I try to think what I am responsible for. Small thing, when there is snowfall,
I just make sure that I get out and wipe the snow outside the shop, on the road
and nearby area. These are some of the common things that nobody thinks of but
just strikes to me. So many people are having inconvenience but no one thinks
about it.
NG:
Sir, What is it that
concerns you?
AO:
One thing that is striking me more and more is
that people in general are prone to distractions and confusion. Going back to when
I was growing up, it was a common thing that many of the adults especially
during times of depression had dropped off from the grammar school. They didn't
have enough money to feed their family so they opted to go out to work. But the
same people at the time of election, they thought about the candidates on the
right parameters, I remember them talking what did that particular candidate do
when he was in senate, what was his position on labor and so on, I mean these
are the people who had very little education but they thought, but today even
the people with all kinds of education and advanced degrees, when elections are
around keep complaining for example they say things like - they don't like the
candidate because they don't like the way his wife dresses. They will talk
about the movie stars. People are increasingly becoming distracted and
confused; I think they are not reading is also
one of the big causes.
NG:
Sir, do you feel
inappropriate usage of technology has played a role in those distractions?
AO:
Yes, I do. There is obviously tremendous
advantage (due) to technology. It is
very much like the difference between walking, riding a bicycle and driving a
car. These things have an effect on the person himself. If somebody walks or even rides a bicycle 5
miles a day, he is going to be a very different person than someone who drives
a car 5 miles a day.
Of course the experience is going to be different if somebody is walking 5
miles a day, they are thinking, they are seeing what's going on around them,
experiencing the nature and people where as the person driving the car, all
they see is the car in front of them if not texting and driving at the same
time.
NG:
How did the idea of free
books store came to your mind?
AO: There was a bagel store at Central Avenue and in
2007 unrelated to the books there was a fire. Late in 2007 the store was closed
for a long time. Late in 2007 new owners took over. They decided not to
continue with the free rack of books they had in the store there. Early in 2008
I started it. For many years 5 years or so there was just a single shelf here.
I don't know exactly why but 3 years ago, a lot of people started bringing in a
lot of books and this way the store expanded.
NG:
Did it ever occur to you
that you should charge some bare minimum amount for a book? (Because you are
spending so much time and energy doing and maintaining all stuff)?
AO:
No. The whole point of this is to reach to as
many people as I could. There are plenty
of generous people out there who have really donated. These are the people who
have actually made the place possible and whom we should thank. They bring books
for whatever reason like they are moving or have limited space at home and so
on. There are a number of people who regularly bring books, they are regular
readers but live in small apartments with limited book shelves. They bring the
books here so that other people can use them.
Many reasons books become available for other people to use. You know there are
all sorts of book in the garage, underneath the bed, some people have book in
their trunks, they are not doing anybody good but when they come here they do
good to a lot of people. There is no way I should think about charging. Some
people get perks that they may not be able to afford these books at all. The
mystery thrillers, romance, these books are not cheap anymore, these books cost
5,6,7,8 dollars, I don’t know how many senior citizens come here and pick up
one or two or more of the books that these people could not afford every week. Well
some people say they could go to the library, certainly they could go to
library; library is very good, but it's not the same thing. I have hundreds of
different titles, yes they read but they don't have to worry about bringing it
back. They can even give it to their friends or to other residents.
As soon as you start charging, there are places where people raise money. Yes,
they raise money to do something good however in terms of reading; but in terms
of the reader, the person who doesn't have that money has no access to reading
that book. Even if you are selling the
book for a quarter, somebody who has to pay his electric and gas bill at the
end of the month has no money they can't get that book where as someone who has
money has a bargain now. There are a plenty of people who don't have even a quarter,
like people with small kids, they may not want to spend on even a quarter
because they have to spend on clothes, shoes and many other essentials. They
may not want to spend on books.
NG: Sir,
Do you have any plans to extend free books store to other parts of city or
country
AO:
Well it’s
something that I might do but don’t have any immediate plans.
NG:
How do you feel when you
see people benefiting from your services?
AO:
I am very glad, there was a gentleman stopping
by here and getting books for his little daughter every week. One day he came
along with his daughter and happily informed she had gotten an award for the
best reader in class. He stopped by to say a Thank you. He thanked me saying
that a source of free books made the little student’s achievement possible.
There are many people who just would not have books at all. When I was growing
up in Jersey City, believe it or not there was a tropical fish magazine and
published here in New Jersey just by chance. In almost every issue there were
articles about people traveling to different parts of the world, collecting
tropical fish out in the jungle. I just hope to some degree that it gives
chance to everybody to think, to imagine that things can be different.
NG:
Sir, please share one of
the most enduring moments of your life?
AO: There are a number of different things. I was
bitten by a bat with rabies when I was only in the 3rd grade. Doctors had told my
Parents that I was going to die. Well no one told me anything, so I fooled them
all.
Onetime I almost drowned. Irresponsibly I went out to a beach early in the morning before the life guards were on duty and got pulled out by a current. Luckily somebody who is a good swimmer heard me yelling and came to rescue me but I came very close to drowning. Anyhow I hesitate, I don't like taking chances, I try to think what is the risk involved, For example I see people putting something that may slip, they say I am putting only for a second, and I say don’t put even for a second, put it over here.
NG: Sir,
What is the happiest moment you recall in your life?
AO: O'boy there are plenty. That would
be hard to say. You know many times things, the projects I worked on, at one
time they were very successful and at another point they failed. I have to look
everything. There are highs and there are lows, you can't take either of them seriously.
NG: Sir, what makes you angry and sad?
AO: Couple of years ago I was regularly riding bicycle on the
Washington bridge. It's one of the most amazing views in the world, when you
look down you see the whole New York City and on the right, you see the Jersey
City palisades. It’s somewhat dangerous especially when you are riding on a bicycle;
on the right hand side you have got the draft of the river and on the left hand
side there is a plenty of traffic, and also it is not very wide. So somebody
who is coming on a bicycle from two different directions actually has to be
very careful.
Anyhow one day I was riding, a guy was coming from another direction on the
George Washington Bridge, walking and texting. It is just thoughtlessness. Now this is one of the most amazing places in
the world and this guy is looking at this small screen. Also he is putting his
own life at risk, my life at risk. That thoughtlessness is something that makes
me angry.
Another common thing I just see,
people crossing the street, either would be not looking at all, how no body is
killed on this corner alone, I have seen cars riding into the people, luckily
no person is being hit. Another time, when people are crossing street, someone
driving the car would intentionally keep coming towards them to get them move,
to scare them. Pure irresponsibility and thoughtlessness! When I was growing up
there were people who were not nice at all but they used to think, they wouldn’t
do something like this.
Climate change is another big thing
that I am concerned about.
NG:
What makes you hopeful
and happy?
AO: There
many big advances in healthcare. The level of healthcare that anybody has
access to as compared to when I was growing up has developed a lot. In those
times even the wealthy people who would have heart attacks, would just die or
would cripple for the whole of their lives. But now there are all sorts of
treatments and transplants. The germs
have been basically conquered. We have antibiotics; we have vaccines getting to
the rest of the world.
The economic conditions have also improved, in earlier times people used to
have at most a TV and a refrigerator in house but now there are many gadgets
now. Technological advances and economic progress is something I cheer about.
NG: Sir, You are already changing the world in one way, but
if you could get some additional power to change the world what would you do?
AO: I look
at the things with a very limited perspective; I wish I would have a wider
perspective. Two things that I complain to the city
about is: I have been bicycling since I was in 2nd grade, in the
street I complained about people riding bicycle on the side of the walking
trail, right after pedestrians. The other thing is the litter. Why we have
litter here? These are two minor, actually silly things. Because they are minor
things that could be easily done.
NG: What actions do you think would best cause the change you
envision?
AO: The old IBM says 'Think'. The point of that isn’t just sit at someplace and do not do
anything, the point isn’t just sit and imagine the chess moves; the point of that is consider the consequences
of your actions, of your moves. Think because of your move what is going to
happen next.
We have got many problems with people eating very poorly, if they consider the
consequences of their actions, tomorrow, next week, forty years from now, not
just immediately. If I am drinking a big
bottle of soda, what’s going to happen tomorrow, the day after, in a month’s
time. People should also think on these lines and for themselves.
NG: What changes do
you believe would make the world a beautiful place?
AO: Right
here in Jersey City people don't think the consequences of their action, people
here in the boulevard drive playing the radio loud, I don't care what kind of
music you like; most people may have a different taste, why can't people use
their headphones.
Litter is another thing here. May be, it all comes down to people don't think much of themselves, they are not going to think about anybody that much, they are holding at a very low standard.
NG: What is SUCCESS
for you?
AO: O’
boy again, I wish I actually had a wider perspective. I see at the end of
everyday what went good and what not so good, what could be improved.
Every single person falls asleep at night and wakes up in the morning. I don't
think somebody owning 5 Rolls-Royces, I don’ think their experience is different;
everybody has to die one day. Steve Jobs left the world defining success in a different
way. There is some degree of physical
and mental inter-dependence.
Bernard Madoff (former stockbroker, investment
advisor and financier), the person who conned people around the world and he is
in jail for life. He took the
definitions of success that’s most common. He owned homes all around the world. It nice to travel around the world. It’s
okay having home in a couple of locations, but why in the world someone wants
to have a dozen (of) mansions across the world? You have to worry about getting
it painted or you have to pay somebody to take care of the house.
NG: What is your
perspective on birth and death? Are you afraid of death?
AO: You
have to be. I mean you don't want to be foolhardy. Many people I grow up with
actually they were not afraid of death and they are gone. The point is, I hope
at that moment I could think I did accomplish something before i die.
Any number of their ancestors who did carry water during the drought, who did go
out there and plough that field, who did get up in the morning early and feed
the animals, in the human history people couldn't waste their lives, Life is so
precious and should be used for a worthwhile purpose.
NG: What legacy you
want to leave to this world?
AO: You look history how many people from
thousand, two-thousand, three-thousand years are remembered. Every single person on the planet has to have
ancestors who experienced something remarkable. You think that the families
couldn't forget these things. One of our ancestors who was actually a laborer worked
for building up this city. Not many are remembered. I am not really worried
about being remembered.
NG: Amazing perspective. Thank you
so much for your precious time and sharing your pearls of wisdom.
AO:
You are most welcome and thank you for coming.
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| A selfie with Anthony Sir |
Giving is like a flowing river, you can only gain from its clean
water. Anthony Olszewski is an epitome
of giving. I salute Anthony and all such human beings for their selfless acts
of Living and Giving. If you are living in near by New York and Jersey City area please do benefit from the store located at 297 Griffith Street, Jersey City.
For personal responses, you can write to Anthony at:
JerseyCityFreeBooks@gmail.com or
anthony.olszewski@gmail.com
How did you like today's post? Did it inspire you to do something good in society? Whatever and how small it may be like planting a tree, driving with caution, thinking about other's safety and well-being, donating blood, helping an elderly citizen in crossing street, passing a warm smile to a stranger, I don't know whatever it may be, just keep doing things that you can in your capacity because good things come in small packages. My Best Wishes, God Bless Humanity.
One Life!
Narendra Gupta
